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You Are On a Journey Too

As parents and family members of an individual who experiences same-sex attraction or gender dysphoria, you may feel like you’ve been thrust into unfamiliar territory. You have. Your journey has begun as well. We’re here to support you.


Explore North Star Resources

Resources for parents and family of individuals who experience same-sex attraction, gender identity, gender incongruence, transgender, or gender dysphoria feelings.

North Star has amassed a library of resources for parents and family members. With the launch of this new website, we are working hard to reorganize and present this information in the best possible way. Check back soon!


Voices from our Community

Find inspiration and encouragement from personal experiences of parents and family of individuals who experience same-sex attraction, gender identity, gender incongruence, transgender, or gender dysphoria feelings in the North Star Community.

Voices of Hope Stories

Meghan & David

Firesides

Dana Hudrlik


Official Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints Resources

How can you help a family member or friend who experiences same-sex attraction or gender dysphoria? The perfect example of balancing unconditional love and keeping God’s commandments was our Savior Jesus Christ. Use the links below to access resources for parents, family members, friends, and allies from The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.


Frequently Asked Questions

Here are some frequently asked questions regarding parents and family of individuals who experience same-sex attraction, gender identity, gender incongruence, transgender, or gender dysphoria feelings. If you have additional questions, comments, or concerns please join the Parents and Family of LGBT or Parents and Family of Transgender FaceBook page(s) or email contact@northstarsaints.org


What do the letters LGBTQ mean?

If you are not familiar with the meanings behind LGBTQ, here are some definitions. Many people use other terms they find more comfortable, or no terms at all. Some move from one term to another as they learn more about themselves.

L: Lesbian is a woman who is primarily attracted to other women.

G: Gay refers to men who are attracted to men, but many women use this term as well. It can be a general term meaning anyone attracted to their own gender. If someone identifies as gay, it does not necessarily mean they are in a same-sex relationship; they may just use it to describe their orientation, not their behavior.

B: Bisexual women find themselves attracted to both men and women. This is usually a consistent pattern for their lives, not generally one random episode of same- or opposite-sex attraction.

T: Transgender describes a person whose sense of personal identity and gender does not correspond with their sex at birth.

Q: Queer is becoming more common, and can refer to either sexual orientation or gender identity or both (or neither). It is an umbrella term that covers many different situations.